Speak with
confidence
Overcome your anxiety of
making a speech by preparing yourself well.
As a young boy growing up in Ohio, USA, I remember the Boy
Scouts' motto: " Be prepared ".
What does this mean? Being prepared means to have an on hand
all that you need for any given scenario.
As a presenter, being prepared will also be your greatest
defence against the nervousness and unpredictability you will
face.
Here are a few tips you will find useful when getting ready
to speak publicly:
Prepare yourself
The first thing is to prepare your notes and material. This
means giving yourself adequate time for selecting and
developing every aspect of your presentation, including the
introduction and conclusion, support materials and audio-visual
aids.
Give extra attention to work on the first three to five
minutes of your speech to develop rapport with your
audience.
You do not need to memorise your presentation. An easier way
is to make notes that capture key words and concepts.
Mind mapping is a great tool for presenters as it allows you
to see main ideas, sup - ideas and their relationship to each
other, in a colourful, visual format. I make an overall map of
my entire topic, and then I make smaller cards with mini mind
maps of specific topics that I keep at hand for quick
reference.
Prepare physically You can also learn to
prepare and make better use of your body. Our caveman ancestors
would feel a rush of blood and accelerating pulse when faced
with a giant predator.
The human body devised this to meet challenges and rise to
the occasion.
You still experience this "fight or flight" response before
you are about to take the stage. You can learn to accept the
extra energy as a natural response to the unknown and use it to
your advantage.
One useful technique is simply to breathe deeply. Deep
diaphragm breathing - where you push out fully the area just
below your navel - will help you to harness some of the energy
and to calm the butterflies.
Do this before you stand up to present and just before you
speak. Before taking the stage, perform this deep breathing
exercise and combine it with powerful physical movement, such
as jumping in place, or making a Tiger Woods - style action of
fist pumping and smiling.
Keep moving Another way to leverage on
the energy in your body is to move around. I am sure you have
seen a presenter who seems to have both hands glued to the
lectern while he spoke.
The speaker has lost the use of one of his best tools - the
gesture. Beware of the lectern. Move it away from the usual
prominent place on a stage.
This gives me the flexibility to move about, and tells the
audience that I am more available to them.
You can also try using a simple music stand positioned in
the centre of the stage to hold your notes instead. It is
friendlier than the formal lectern and serves the same
purpose.
Practise your delivery
Have you ever seen someone present eloquently and naturally? It
is because they have practised.
Prepare your delivery. This is where a video camera can be
your best friend.
If you do not have a video camera, try practising with your
child, spouse or even a mirror. One speaker said he practises
with a clock.
It has a face, possibly more movement than some of the
audience, and it allows him to time his delivery.
I sometimes practise with my nine-year-old daughter. It
allows me to practise in a light hearted way, and creates a fun
experience where she can also be the teacher.
Making a connection
Presenting and speaking is an opportunity - to share, inspire
and instruct other. It is also an opportunity for you to grow
and to become a leader. Through overcoming your fears and doing
a fantastic job in your delivery, you create a platform for
others to do so as well.
Article by Tim Hannons, a senior consultant of Training Edge
International. He has worked for over 12 years with corporate
clients and students to develop and facilitate
experiential-based learning solutions.
Email : tim@trainingedgeasia.com
Website: www.trainingedgeasia.com.
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